The Emotional Side of Downsizing

In the mid 1800’s, British designer and poet William Morris said, “Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful.” Over 150 years later, these words are still applicable, especially to those looking to downsize. Downsizing consultants estimate that 80% of what we own, we never use.

Anyone can make a decision to downsize but most often we think of someone downsizing after retirement, either to a smaller home or condo, or to a retirement community. As we age, our needs, abilities, and health can change, sometimes very quickly. Maintaining a home and yard is sometimes a physical and financial burden. Safety can be a concern depending on the size of the home and the surrounding neighborhood. Other reasons people may downsize include not wanting to be a future burden to family and friends, a desire for social interaction, an inability to drive, and overall health and wellness needs.

Whatever your reason for downsizing, it is a task that can be daunting. To some, downsizing is not simply sorting through a house full of “stuff”. Downsizing means sorting through your treasures, your essentials, and often an entire lifetime of memories. Over time, we develop emotional connections to things, especially if they were passed down to us from loved ones. Our possessions and our memories can become intertwined. Maybe you feel as though giving away your grandmother’s china is going to lead to losing those precious memories of your grandmother. According to Nan Hayes, founder of moveseniors.com, “People tend to cling to their possessions to avoid dealing with other issues like stress or fear.” During a time of transition to a smaller home, a condo or a senior living community, stress levels can be high. This can make sorting items even more difficult.

Linda Hetzer and Janet Hulstrand, the authors of “Moving On: A Practical Guide to Downsizing the Family Home”, theorize there are two kinds of people when it comes to downsizing. There are the “throwers” who tend to work quickly and enjoy clearing out spaces and un-cluttering rooms. Then there are “keepers” who tend to linger on each item and really struggle to decide what to do with each item. They may even put off the process because it is too emotional for them. While the “keepers” may delay and slow down the process, the “throwers” may miss valuables and even money tucked away in pockets of clothing or in between pages of books. It can be beneficial to find both a “thrower” and a “keeper” to help in the downsizing process.

Downsizing may be a difficult decision but it is almost always beneficial in the long term. Focus on yourself and your needs and values. If you have a favorite chair that makes you feel safe and cozy, be sure to take that wherever you go. If you have a hobby you are passionate about, be sure to set aside even a small amount of space for that passion. Look at your trinkets and treasures from years gone by and decide which will fit into your new lifestyle. If you have to leave them behind, take photos to help you remember the story behind each item. According to Hetzer and Hulstrand, “Successful downsizing is coming to the realization that the most valuable thing in the house is the life that has been lived there.”

Celebrating 109 Years of Worry-Free Living

Each September, the residents and Trustees of the John C. Proctor Endowment gather for a private dinner celebrating the anniversary of the John C. Proctor Endowment Home. In 1906, Peoria philanthropist John C Proctor opened the Proctor Home with just 20 residents. Mr. Proctor’s vision was to establish a senior living home to provide high-quality, worry free living. In 2013, after many years of growth and expansion, Proctor Home announced it would be known as Proctor Place. For the past 109 years and for many years to come, we will continue to honor the legacy and vision of John C. Proctor by offering the finest independent living options with a private nursing care facility available only to Proctor Place residents.

Walk a Path to Better Health

As humans, we learn to walk very early on, and most of us walk at least a little bit every day. It seems so simple, does not cost anything and does not take much effort. So, how can something as simple as walking keep us healthy, encourage creativity, improve our outlook on life, and even help us live longer, more independent lives?

We have all been warned of the risk factors for developing heart disease: high cholesterol, high blood pressure, obesity, and smoking, among others. As we age, our risk of developing heart disease also increases. Heart disease is the leading cause of death for both men and women. One of every four deaths results from heart disease; that’s about 600,000 deaths per year. For years, studies have shown that people who exercise daily are able to reduce their blood pressure, waistlines and cholesterol, thus reducing their risk of developing heart disease. In a recent Australian study, researchers discovered that those who rarely exercise are twice as likely to develop heart disease as those who walk often and six times more likely than those who exercised vigorously every day. Even a half hour of walking each day can reduce your risk of developing heart disease.

If a healthy heart is not enough incentive for you to take a walk, how about a healthy brain? In multiple studies, researchers have seen both animals and humans perform better in memory and decision-making tests after exercising. Moderate exercise, like walking, has even been linked to creativity. At Stanford University, study participants were given a series of tasks that involved creative thinking. For example, a participant may have been asked to come up with an alternate use for a common object, like a button or a cup. The participants were then asked to take the same test while walking on a treadmill. The responses were far more creative when participants were walking. Even more interesting is that very little change was seen between indoor walks on the treadmill and outdoor, more scenic walks. It seems that it is simply the walking that spurs creativity, not where the walking takes place.

In addition to enhancing creativity, memory, and decision-making skills, walking also helps improve mood. Particularly in senior citizens, walking can help develop feelings of self-worth, sense of purpose, and may greatly reduce the likelihood of clinical depression. Mental health is just as important as physical health, and walking can impact both in a positive way.

As we age, our goal should be to remain independent and active as long as possible. Doctors will often tell patients, “Use it or lose it.” For people over age 65, walking can provide real health benefits for maintaining mobility and independence. Once we become sedentary, we lose muscle mass and aerobic capacity. In essence, if we stop moving, we eventually begin to lose our ability to move around as easily as we once did. For those at risk of osteoporosis or arthritis, even a little bit of walking will also help stimulate and strengthen bones and maintain our joints.

Walking comes easily to most people. Here are five reasons to go for a walk today!

  1. Healthier Heart – Greatly reduce your risk of developing heart disease.
  2. Healthy Mind – Improve your decision making ability, memory and even creative thinking.
  3. Strong Bones and Muscles – Weight bearing activity can stimulate bones and maintain joints. It can also keep muscles toned.
  4. Healthy Outlook on Life – Improve your mood and reduce your likelihood of clinical depression.
  5. Remain Independent – Use it; don’t lose it! Maintain mobility, muscle mass, and aerobic capacity to help you live an active and independent lifestyle.

The good news is, it’s never too late to start. So start today. One foot in front of the other and you will soon walk your way into a happier, healthier life.

Proctor Place Open House

Proctor Place, a Life Care Retirement Community, will host an Open House on September 2nd from 1pm to 4pm. All are welcome, from those who are doing preliminary research to those who are ready to make the move to worry free retirement living. We will be offering Life Care Planning and Information sessions at 1pm and 3pm. Guided tours of Proctor Place will be offered at 1:30pm and 3:30pm. Attendees also have the option to take Self-Guided tours any time between 1pm and 4pm. From 2pm to 3pm, light refreshments will be served and Etc. music group will perform a lively set of songs from the 1950s.

To RSVP for this event, please call Amy Durbin at 566-4204 by August 28th.

Here’s a snapshot of what you will see at the Proctor Place Open House.

https://youtu.be/yqWHkPp7xD4.

Proctor Place Resident to celebrate 105th Birthday

On November 21st at 10:00am, Proctor Place residents and staff will help a very special resident celebrate a very big birthday.  Lillian Florey will turn 105 years old on Friday. She will celebrate by enjoying cake with her family and friends in the Café at Proctor Place.  Lillian has was born on November 21st, 1909 and has been a resident of Proctor Place since March of 2000.

Annual Holiday Open House scheduled at Proctor Place

Proctor Place residents and staff invite family, friends and community members to attend the annual Christmas Open House on December 7th from 2pm to 4pm. As a festive kick off to the holiday season, everyone is invited to stroll through Proctor Place’s warm and welcoming community. Visitors will enjoy seasonal decorations, a peek at some of our recent renovations and an opportunity to tour some of our independent living accommodations. Appetizers and drinks will be served and holiday entertainment will be enjoyed throughout the afternoon. A photographer will be available to take family photos and capture the fun of the festivities.

To see photos of this event, please click here.

Proctor Place celebrates 108th Anniversary

In 1906, Peoria philanthropist John C Proctor opened the Proctor Home with just 20 residents. Mr. Proctor’s vision was to establish a senior living home to provide high-quality, worry free living. On September 25th, 2014, residents and the Trustees of John C Proctor Endowment celebrated the home’s 108th Anniversary with a private dinner.

The John C Proctor Endowment Home, known at the time of origin as Proctor Home, has come a long way in 108 years. In 1976, Proctor Home moved from the original building on Spring Street to its current location, a six-story building on Reservoir Blvd. This building, the center of a growing Proctor Place community, is now called “The Heights” and is just one of many independent living options. The first expansion at the current location occurred in 1981 with an addition of the apartment buildings now known as “The Garden View.” With more independent living options came a need for a larger healthcare wing, so in 1998, Proctor Home opened “Shepherd’s Way”, its on-site nursing care facility. To mark the 100 year milestone in 2006, “The Centennial Building” was opened offering another independent living option for those searching for larger living accommodations.

After years of growth and expansion, in 2013 Proctor Home announced it would now be known as Proctor Place to better represent our focus on offering the finest independent living options with a private nursing care facility available only to Proctor Place residents. Donna Malone, President CEO said, “Today, the focus on continuous improvement continues, even in our 108th year. Over the last year, we have finished several major remodeling projects including a beautiful new entrance and large family room area along with the addition of two restaurants, each complete with their own distinct menus of made-to-order options. We are proud to continue John C. Proctor’s legacy.”

View photos from this event.

Major Renovations are Nearing Completion

From the moment you enter Proctor Place’s Senior Living Community you will see, It’s Simply Better Here. Major renovations are nearing completion and the results are breathtaking. Proctor Place is now the only local retirement community offering four separate dining options. Donna J. Malone, President CEO of Proctor Placesays “We are extremely pleased withour renovations.Our goal was toprovide an environment unlike any other retirement community in the area and we feel we have accomplished this goal. We have created what we like to describe as a feeling of comfortable elegance.”

Proctor Place’s renovations will continue throughout the end of this year as they remodel their two existing dining rooms as well as their main auditorium.

Major Renovations are Nearing Completion

Major Renovations are Nearing Completion

Major Renovations are Nearing Completion

Major Renovations are Nearing Completion

Major Renovations are Nearing Completion

Major Renovations are Nearing Completion

Proctor Place opens Jim & Evy’s Cafe

Proctor Place opens Jim & Evy’s Cafe offering a made-to-order menu

Jim Evy’s Café is a made-to-order restaurant with extended lunchtime hours, 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. Monday through Friday. The café has house-made sandwiches, pizza, side salads and seasonal specialities like fresh battered fish sandwichs, italian beef and classic reubens. Jim and Evy’s Café offers a warm environment full of natural light.

The Café was made possible as a result of a kind and generous donation from Mr. Jim Johnson, a former resident of Proctor Place. Jim and his wife Evelyn called Proctor Place home in 1999. Evelyn passed away in 2001 and Jim followed years later in 2012. In dedication of the café Jim and Evy’s daughters, Liz and Barb best described the families overall desire for the Café:

“Our parents, Jim and Evy Johnson, as harmonious traveling companions, loved driving down back roads decked by corn fields, exploring a new place to eat, or returning to a favorite, especially Lincoln. They looked for good food, a spirited atmosphere, lively service, and tables supplied with the most necessary ingredient–people.

The best eateries echoed the substance and simplicity of their intimate kitchen–sunshine, lengthy discussions, laughter, and a memory of our dad waiting with the anticipation of a schoolboy for the potpourri plate, an abracadabra, placed before him. Our mom, a cuisine alchemist, could whip up a tasty anything almost instantly from scratch–magical little sandwiches and perfect tiny pickles legendary.

Jim and Evy, formerly contented residents of Proctor Place, would be pleased to welcome you as travelers in life to this café. May you enjoy companionship, fun, and nurturing food for your wellness and wholeness.

May Blessings ring!
Warmly,
Daughters Liz and Barb”

We hope you will join us in Jim Evy’s Café to enjoy our most important ingredient — people.

Proctor Place supports Alzheimer’s Association

Proctor Place is eager to announce that our senior living community has adopted the Alzheimer’s Association as a corporate donor. Currently, more than 5 million people in the United States and 35 million worldwide suffer from the debilitating disease. This startling statistic hits especially close to home here at Proctor Place.

“To eliminate Alzheimer’s disease through the advancement of research; to provide and enhance care and support for all affected; and to reduce the risk of dementia through the promotion of brain health” states the Alzheimer’s Association’s mission. Proctor Place wants to aide in that mission. Every fall, the Association organizes a walk on the Peoria Riverfront to support the cause. Proctor Place looks forward to the 2013 walk on Sunday, October 6th. As a community, Proctor Place, will raise donations and participate in the walk, striving for the vision that we all share: A world without Alzheimer’s disease.